mdenis, US, 50 years

Q: Wife of 27 yrs has no interest in sex; I've grown to like guys. Marriage is convenient, nothing else. Wondering if I should consider divorce, or if I should just continue playing around behind her back. If she were to find out I'd probably be relieved. My sex drive is still very strong while hers is nonexistent.

A: Maybe your wife has the same thoughts or she noticed something of your playing around. You should try to find out what she wants. Perhaps she wants the divorce as well. If not, explaining your situation could convince her.
Never do anything what you don't really want to do!